Dear Hummingbird,
Help me o, My future husband has Sister-zoned me o.
Ah! The first day I saw him, I was so confused. That boy is fine! I just stood there thinking, “God, is this how You want to do me?” I knew immediately that I had met the love of my life.
Let me back up a bit.
Earlier this year, I got a good job in Lagos, so I had to move. My parents were scared of me living alone, so they forced me to live with a family friend I had never met. For the most part, the woman was okay, except for the occasional madness, which I just ignored. I went to work, came home, helped around the house, and locked myself in my room. That was my pattern until her son came home from Abuja. Her fine son, who has now turned my head upside down.
We quickly became friends, and suddenly, that house felt like home. Sometimes he would pick me up from work, and we would go to the movies or just drive around talking for hours. It was everything I had hoped for. This guy is kind, generous, loving and just perfect. I was so sure my love story had started
The first day my heart broke was when he came home and told me about his girlfriend. I thought I was hearing things because what does he mean, girlfriend? My own husband, lol. He was so in love with this girl and wouldn’t stop talking about her, he even told me his plans of marrying her cause she was everything he wanted. I couldn’t believe my ears.
To make things worse, one day he brought her home and introduced me as his ‘little sister’. Help me o, this boy is only two years older than me, so who is the little sister? I had to pretend to be happy. Don’t get me wrong o, I love seeing him happy, but I genuinely believe that I’m his happiness. So why is he parading around the house with this girl, saying she is his wife? The babe even called me baby sis one day, and it took the grace of God inside me not to slap her, which is making me feel guilty, cause low-key, the girl is very nice. All these soft-spoken ajebo baby girls. Mtchew
Recently, they’ve been having some issues, and I feel like this is my only chance to fight for the man I love. I know I sound like a hater or the devil, but I really really love this boy. I don’t know if I should tell him because I’m scared he will reject me, which will make things worse case, I would probably lose my best friend. On the other hand, what if he loves me and just needs a little nudge in the right direction?
Anyways, please advice me o before I go ahead and break someone’s relationship. There is only so much a lady can take before fighting for her Man, abi?
Should I speak up or stay in my corner and swallow the heartbreak like hot eba?
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She should better let the boy be if not she go cry hot tears
Honest Hard Truth o ✨