Ask Humming Bird

People often say that childhood trauma has no business growing with you; that at some point, it’s meant just to fade away, disappear, like adolescence. But it doesn’t work that way.

Help! Being a serial people pleaser is draining my peace and messing with my mental health.
All my life, I’ve had this compulsive need to put everyone’s needs before mine and have never really known how to say “no”.

Dear Hummingbird, I find it tough to accept how hard it becomes to make and keep friendships as we grow

Dear Hummingbird, I’m embarrassed to face God. You can’t imagine the shame I’m feeling right now as I type this

Dear Hummingbird, I met this brother recently. I won’t describe myself as a sister, but I am a Christian who

Dear Hummingbird, Okay, let me give you a background story. My best friend and I have been tight since childhood.

Dear Hummingbird, I have been dating this girl for about two years now, and I am pretty sure she is

One of my co-workers even asked what I did to Oga. That was when I clocked how toxic the atmosphere might be.

Dear Hummingbird, Help me o, My future husband has Sister-zoned me o. Ah! The first day I saw him, I

Dear Hummingbird, There was a time I believed my cousin was my sister. Back then, I would never have believed